Single is a Choice

Being single is a choice.   There are a lot of people who choose to stay in or enter into bad relationships because they fear being alone.  If your single you have chosen to be independent and cut your own path. If the right person comes along that journey will have  prepared you for the next stage of life.  I found a good article that sums this up titled  Single Isn't a Bad Word.  All opinions are welcome please visit like our Facebook page Kingston Singles

Speed Meet At The Rendezvous Lounge

How many people do you want to meet in one night?  The Rendezvous Lounge is hosting our first Speed Meet December 6th.   This event has a limit 20 people.  That's 10 people seeking women and 10 people seeking men.  

This different than traditional speed dating.  Speed dating adds the pressure of choosing yes or know after each "date."  Kingston Singles will mirror the speed dating concept of meeting 10 people in short time increments but no decision will need to be made on the spot.  Instead we will move down stairs to the bar so you can chat with the people who you want to know better. 

-  Approach anxiety is no longer a factor
-  Shyness is really eliminated
-  You can't be a wallflower
-  You don't have to spend $30 on diner when you know after 5 minutes that there is no more to to talk about.
-  You both want to be there.
-  You don't have to wonder if the person is single
-  No pickup lines
-  It's one evening not five Fridays in a bar hoping the right person comes to you.
RSVP is required. Please reserve your spot today at Meetup.com

Inaugural Event !!!!! Masquerade Bash !

Here it is ! Our first event !

After Halloween Masquerade Bash !! 

Come out ... Have a blast ... meet some people !

Friday November 2nd at 930pm

Kozy Tavern on Foxhall

DJ Styles spinning !

This is a SINGLES only event !

All singles, heterosexual, same sex, all colors, all religions !

If you're single, we want you at our event !

Tickets are available now !

RSVP to our guest list for discount 

Deal for the ladies:

Register yourself, and two friends to our guest list, 

and all three PAY NO COVER !

Most of my friends are in relationships. They usually have one of two responses regarding my being single, "oh you're so lucky" or "who can I set you up with?". The later statement is the worst. At least with my friends. They set me up with someone who I have absolutely nothing in common with, except for the fact that we are both single. Which results in an awkward, wasted evening, and me wondering, do my friends even know me? Or are the just trying to mess with me?
In many ways I am lucky to be single. Someday I will chose to be in a relationship again I'm sure. But this is my time now. If I want to spend the weekend painting my apartment neon orange, I can do that! Because this is my time. Sometimes you can get lost in a relationship, which is understandable. Compromise is very important and everything becomes 'we' or 'our' not 'I' or 'my'. I'm happy to have this time to find out more about myself and my own interests.
And I'm very excited about this group. I'm looking forward to meeting new people and making new friends. Not necessarily to meet a mate, but to meet people who understand a little bit more about the joys (and even the struggles) of what it's like to be single. Not people that only have an outside perspective, but people that are actually living it. This group has some exciting events coming up that I am looking forward to. Should be some fun, entertaining times (which are much better than awkward, wasted times). I look forward to meeting all of you that attend.

- Andrea

What's up sexy?

What's up (Add your preferred word here:  sexy, beautiful, hot, breathtaking, etc...) (Insert preferred word for women:  chicky, mama, girl, angel, etc...)!

I want to know what goes through women's heads when they see or hear these things.  I know from experience that when I give a genuine complement, generally I use beautiful as my adjective, I get very strange looks or they use the I want to squirm away body language.

Why?

Is it that they have been told these thing too many times?  Do the women not believe the truth of the statement or that it is in fact sincere?  Has popular culture so diminished the image of man that for him to ever say anything like this he will be perceived to only be attempting to get a woman's panties to drop?

Women please set the record straight?

Solo ? Yolo !

What do we mean by this?

Let me start by saying I'm not a fan of the whole "yolo" thing ...
It's a little cheesy ... Ok, a lot cheesy!

But in this case, it works

You only live once ... Why not enjoy it?
Why not embrace who you are, and where you are in life?
Why not love being single?
Why not want to come out to fun events and meet other cool people?

No pressure to date, no pressure to "find" someone ... It's not about that.

It's about having enjoying your life in the company of other similar people!

Come out. Meet new people.

Are you single ?
Come out and enjoy life!

Solo ?
Yolo !

Loving Single Life ...

I come from the other side of the street ... I'm johns yang (not literally)
 I love being single.
Not just saying that because it makes me sound happier ... or because i cant find someone ... I hang with alot of someones ... I have a bunch of friends, mostly female, who i like to spend my free time with.
 I'm not wanting to be tied down, not wanting to be in a relationship, not wanting the drama or issues involved in sharing all of my life with one person.
 AND I LOVE IT !!
 Like I said, i'm not anti female, or anti relationship ... its just not for me ... not right now ... I'm enjoying every day ... doing what i want ... and giving the people who make me happy my free time.

 Id like to use this as a place to meet more awesome people ... other singles, who want to enjoy their free time.

 I AM NOT REFERRING TO HOOKNG UP
this page is not condoning random hookups !! What two consenting adults do is their business ... but we are not encouraging such activity.  

If you are not single, please don't join in ...
If you are with someone you are unhappy with, get single, then join in !!